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Lessons on Fatherhood from Joseph’s Story

As a father, he carried a great deal of responsibility. He had to provide for his family while also protecting them from danger. Joseph may have hoped the unusual beginning to fatherhood would eventually settle into an ordinary life, but his family remained part of God’s once-in-history plan. Yet, every step of the way, Joseph’s character revealed what it truly means to be a real man and a great dad.

His relationship with Mary began in a normal way. They were engaged when suddenly Mary shared news that changed everything—she was pregnant. Joseph knew the baby was not his, and Mary’s explanation was difficult to understand. In that moment, Joseph had a choice. He could respond with anger, bitterness, and humiliation, or he could respond with compassion and grace.

Joseph chose compassion.

The Bible tells us Joseph planned to end the relationship quietly. He did not want Mary publicly shamed or humiliated. Even while hurting and confused, Joseph still cared about her well-being. Real men do not use pain as an excuse to wound others. Joseph teaches us that character matters most when emotions run high.

That kind of response still matters today. When misunderstandings happen in our relationships, workplaces, friendships, or families, we can choose grace over revenge. We can pause before speaking harsh words, refuse to embarrass someone publicly, and remember that kindness reflects the heart of Christ. One practical way to live this out is by asking, “Will my response help heal the situation or make it worse?” before reacting.

But the story did not end there.

Joseph chose obedience.

The Lord stepped into Joseph’s situation and revealed a different plan. An angel appeared to Joseph in a dream and told him not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife because the child she carried was from the Holy Spirit. Joseph could have ignored the message, but instead, he obeyed God even when obedience was difficult and uncomfortable.

Joseph reminds us that real faith is shown through obedience. Sometimes God calls us to do things that do not make sense to everyone around us. Sometimes following the Lord means trusting Him when the future feels uncertain.

We can apply this truth in practical ways today by praying before making major decisions, seeking God’s direction in Scripture, and trusting Him even when we do not have every answer. Obedience may feel uncomfortable in the moment, but it often leads to blessings we cannot yet see.

Joseph chose consistency.

Joseph also teaches us the importance of consistency. Scripture does not record many words from Joseph, but his actions spoke loudly. He protected his family, worked hard, listened to God, and stayed faithful in the responsibilities placed before him. He was not perfect, but he was dependable.

In a world that often celebrates loud voices and public attention, Joseph reminds us that faithfulness in everyday life matters deeply. Showing up for your family, encouraging your children, working with integrity, praying with your spouse, checking on a friend, and quietly doing the right thing are powerful acts of faith.

Joseph may not always stand at the center of the Christmas story, but his life leaves behind a powerful example. Real strength is found in compassion. Real leadership is rooted in obedience to God. Real manhood is revealed through humility, faithfulness, and love.

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Podcast Episode: Faith, Gratitude, And Love

Pip: Get Encouraged is doing what it says on the tin this week — Chris Miller has been writing about storms, gratitude, kindness, and freedom, and somehow none of it feels like a motivational poster.

Mara: That's the territory we're covering today: finding assurance when life gets hard, noticing the beauty that's already around us, choosing love in a chaotic world, and reflecting on what freedom really means.

Pip: Let's start with what to do when the water is rising.

Holding Steady Through the Storm

Mara: The question here is whether God's presence actually changes anything when life gets difficult — not in theory, but in the middle of the hardship itself.

Pip: Isaiah 43:2 is the anchor, and the setup matters: God isn't promising an easy road. The verse reads, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, neither shall the flame kindle upon you."

Mara: Notice the word "when," not "if." The post makes this explicit — God doesn't promise the absence of hard seasons, only His presence through them. That reframe is the whole point.

Pip: Noah, the Israelites at the Red Sea, Shadrach and his friends in the furnace — the pattern holds across the whole story. The waters are temporary; the presence isn't.

Mara: And the piece on building bigger barns extends this in an unexpected direction — it's a warning that stockpiling security can become its own kind of storm, one we create ourselves by losing sight of what actually lasts.

Pip: From floods to gratitude — the view from creation is next.

Creation, Beauty, and Giving Thanks

Mara: The thread running through these posts is attention — specifically, what happens when we slow down enough to notice what's already there.

Pip: Psalm 19:1 does the heavy lifting: "The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands." Creation isn't decoration; it's testimony.

Mara: The post on recognizing daily blessings puts a human face on the cost of not paying attention — a father who grumbles before every prayer, until his daughter asks which one God actually believes.

Pip: That question lands harder than most sermons.

Mara: It does. Both posts point the same direction: slow down, look around, and thank God for ten specific blessings today. The practice matters as much as the principle.

Pip: Speaking of practice — kindness is next, and it turns out there are seven ways to do it.

Kindness as a Daily Decision

Pip: The tension in this segment is real: the world is loud and chaotic, and choosing kindness can feel like bringing a candle to a wildfire. These posts argue it's exactly the right tool.

Mara: The post on embracing kindness in a chaotic world grounds everything in a specific model. Jesus touched a man with leprosy when others avoided him, fed a hungry crowd rather than sending them home, and the post names why: "Jesus was compelled by love and moved by compassion."

Pip: That phrase — compelled by love, moved by compassion — is doing a lot of work. It's not describing an occasional mood; it's describing an orientation.

Mara: Philippians 2:5 is the challenge the post issues directly: adopt the same attitude as Christ Jesus. Not admire it. Adopt it.

Pip: Which is where the practical piece comes in. The post on seven ways to be messengers of love takes that challenge and breaks it into actual decisions — choosing patience over anger, speaking words that heal, refusing to spread gossip.

Mara: First Corinthians 13 is the spine there: "Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."

Pip: That list of seven isn't abstract. Pray for people you struggle with. Persevere with difficult relationships. Perform one act of kindness before the day ends without expecting anything back.

Mara: The post frames love explicitly as a decision, not a feeling — especially when frustration or bitterness would be the easier response. That's the whole argument in one line.

Pip: Freedom deserves the same kind of attention — and that's exactly where we land next.

Freedom, Justice, and What God Sees

Mara: Juneteenth is the anchor here — not as history lesson alone, but as a lens for understanding what freedom means and why it matters to God.

Pip: The post goes straight to the historical weight: on June 19, 1865, enslaved people in Galveston, Texas finally heard the news that had been true for more than two years. The delay is the point.

Mara: And the scriptural parallel is direct. Exodus 3:7 — "I have surely seen the affliction of my people… and have heard their cry." God was not absent from their suffering. He was working toward deliverance.

Pip: The post connects that to John 8:36 and the freedom Christ brings — not as a pivot away from the historical reality, but as an extension of the same truth: every person carries dignity, and justice reflects the heart of God.

Mara: The call is practical: pray for healing, choose understanding over anger, treat every person as someone made in the image of God. Freedom is worth celebrating, and love is always worth living out.


Pip: Presence in the storm, beauty in the ordinary, kindness as a daily choice, freedom as something worth protecting — that's a week's worth of reminders that hold together.

Mara: All of it points the same direction: pay attention, and then act on what you see.

Pip: More of that next time.

Building Bigger Barns: A Cautionary Tale

A farmer had an abundant crop and was able to fill his barns completely. The farmer still had goods and grains needing stored, but he had no room in his barns. He decided he would build bigger barns so he could tightly hold on to everything he harvested. His plan was to save for years to come.

The farmer told himself, “I can relax, eat, drink, and be merry for years to come,” but the Lord, in Luke 12:20, said to him, “You fool, you will die this very night, then who will get everything you have worked for?”

Jesus goes on in Luke 12:21, “Yes, a person is a fool to store up earthly wealth, but not have a rich relationship with God.”

There is certainly nothing wrong with saving for retirement and being responsible with our money. In fact, Scripture encourages us to handle our wealth responsibly. Being generous is part of the responsibility we have in handling what we have been given.

Jesus says in Luke 12:15, “Beware, guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own.”

Proverbs 11:17 states, “Your kindness will reward you, but your cruelty will destroy you.”

Solomon goes on in Proverbs 11, “Give freely and become wealthier. Be stingy and lose everything. The generous will prosper, those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.”

“Trust in your money and down you go, but the Godly flourish like leaves in spring,” Proverbs 11:28 continues.

Generosity is not an old-fashioned principle. The world is in need of generous people now more than ever. We can be generous with our time, our love, and our money. Jesus says it is better to give than receive. How will you be generous today?

Podcast Episode: Hope And Grace In Hard Times

Pip: Welcome to Get Encouraged — where the storms are real, the foundation is solid, and someone has already looked up the relevant Scripture.

Mara: Chris Miller has been writing this week about what keeps people going when life gets hard — resilience through setbacks, peace and kindness in community, and what it means to stand firm when the ground shifts. Let's start with the question of how we face challenges and keep moving forward.

Resilience Through Setbacks

Mara: The thread running through these posts is a simple but serious one: what do you do when you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, or when past mistakes keep pulling you backward?

Pip: "Finding Hope Amid Life's Challenges" reaches for a verse that answers that directly. The setup is God's provision being bigger than personal convenience, and the quote from 2 Corinthians lands it: "God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work."

Mara: So the upshot is that provision isn't just comfort — it's functional. It frees you to focus on the work in front of you rather than scrambling to survive the moment.

Pip: "Press On: Finding Hope Beyond Past Mistakes" pushes that forward — literally. Paul's framing in Philippians 3 is almost athletic: forget what's behind, fix your eyes on what's ahead, run toward the prize. The post breaks that into concrete steps: start the day with gratitude, learn from mistakes without living in them, take one small step forward.

Mara: And "Overcoming Setbacks: Believe in God's Presence" anchors it with Thomas Edison — whose factory burned to the ground in 1914, and who looked at the wreckage and said, "We can start over anew. All of our mistakes are burned up."

Pip: That's either extraordinary faith or extraordinary denial. The post argues it's faith — grounded in the promise from Matthew 28:20 that Jesus is present "always, even to the very end of the age."

Mara: All three posts land on the same practical move: refuse to let failure or the past define your next step. God goes ahead of you into tomorrow before you arrive there.

Pip: Which raises the question of how we treat each other while we're all stumbling forward together.

Peace and Kindness in Community

Mara: This segment is about what community looks like when it's actually working — and what quietly corrodes it.

Pip: "Seeing the Heart: A Call to Grace and Acceptance" goes to Galatians 3 for the foundation: "There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus."

Mara: What that means in practice is that the only deciding factor for belonging is acceptance — God looks at the heart, and the post challenges us to do the same with one another.

Pip: And then "Loose Lips Sink Ships" arrives to explain exactly how fast we can undermine that. Gossip, the post notes, can erode confidence and ruin reputations in minutes. The WWII slogan is apt: loose lips sink ships — and communities.

Mara: "Finding True Peace Amid Life's Noise" ties it together — peace isn't found by escaping the noise, but by trusting the One greater than it. Bring everything to God in prayer, and the calm follows.

Pip: From how we speak about each other to where we stand when the ground shakes.

Standing Firm in Storms

Mara: "Building a Firm Foundation in Stormy Times" is direct about the moment we're in: storms are coming from every direction, and the question is what your foundation is made of.

Pip: Solomon puts it plainly in Proverbs 10:25: "When the storms of life come, the wicked are whirled away, but the Godly have a lasting foundation."

Mara: The post points to Jesus's parable of the two builders — one who skipped the digging, one who didn't. The storm treated them very differently. The foundation isn't decoration; it's what's left when everything else is tested.


Pip: Press on, look at the heart, and dig before the storm arrives — not a bad week's worth of reminders.

Mara: Next time, we'll see what else is waiting at Get Encouraged. Keep coming back.

Embracing Kindness in a Chaotic World

He didn’t yell or shout at others. He didn’t stir up hatred with His words. He didn’t approach life with an “I’m better than you” attitude. His approach was different.

When a man suffering from leprosy came to Him, Jesus was moved with compassion and reached out His hand to touch him (Mark 1:41), while others ignored and avoided the man. When He saw a hungry crowd, He made sure they were fed (Mark 6:34) rather than sending them home empty. Jesus was compelled by love and moved by compassion. As His followers, we are called to live the same way.

Philippians 2:5 challenges us to adopt the same attitude as Christ Jesus.

Jesus’ attitude brought refreshment to the people He encountered, and that same attitude can still bring refreshment today. In a world filled with finger-pointing and chaotic shouting, our neighbors are hungry for compassion, kindness, and hope.

Are we compelled by love? Are we moved by compassion?

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Building a Firm Foundation in Stormy Times

There seems to be no shortage of storms in the world right now. Glance at the headlines, and you will soon discover storms coming at us from all directions. Inflation, personal safety being at risk, and the like are causing storms. While it may be a particularly stormy time, storms are nothing new to life.

Proverbs suggests we build our lives on a firm foundation to survive these storms. Solomon writes in 10:25, “When the storms of life come, the wicked are whirled away, but the Godly have a lasting foundation.”

How do we build this foundation?

  • Develop a relationship with the Lord by spending time in the Bible.
  • Seek wisdom through prayer.
  • Search the Scriptures for answers to life’s questions.
  • Always strive to do what is right.

Building on this foundation is not easy, but it is worth the effort involved. Jesus tells a parable of two builders. The first builder did not take the time to dig through the sand to place his home on a rock foundation, while the second builder dug through the sand to rest his home on a rock foundation. A storm came, and flood waters rose. The first house was swept away, but the second house stood, unmoved by the tumultuous waters.

As we are weathering a stormy time, how firm is your foundation? Do you need to allow the Lord to add stability?

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Finding True Peace Amid Life’s Noise

Columnist Deborah Mathis has written about her observations during a particular trip through Union Station in Washington D.C. There was a great deal of movement and noise. Announcements blaring, security guards shouting directions, horns honking, people moving in all directions, and a traveler singing What a Friend We Have in Jesus.

“What a friend we have in Jesus,

All our sins and griefs to bear;

What a privilege to carry

Everything to God in prayer.”

Slowly a change came over the noisy crowd. The voice continued:

“O what peace we often forfeit,

O what needless pain we bear,

All because we do not carry

Everything to God in prayer.”

As the traveler sang, the hubbub of the station was replaced with a calm peace. A man in front of Mathis commented that he was not a Christian, but the peace was nice. Amid current events and all the noise of the world around us, many people are searching for peace. There are a number of places and products promising peace, but it seems those spots only leave the searcher longing for more and wondering if there really is true peace.

The Bible teaches there is true peace, and it comes in trusting the Lord.

  • Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”
  • We read in Philippians 4:6-7, “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”

When we trust the Lord, he brings us peace just like he did on a stormy, scary night for a few of his first followers. The night started with Jesus and his disciples beginning the journey across a lake. As they were crossing, a fierce storm came up. The boat was rocked as it began to fill with water. Mark’s Gospel says, “Jesus was sleeping at the back of the boat with his head on a cushion. The disciples woke him up, shouting, “Teacher, don’t you care that we’re going to drown?” When Jesus woke up, he rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Silence! Be still!” Suddenly the wind stopped, and there was a great calm.” 

The calmness was once again interrupted on the other side of the lake. Jesus and the disciples were met by a man possessed by a legion of demons. This man had not had peace for a long time, and his presence probably created a scary situation for the disciples. Jesus, though, had control of the situation. He ordered the demons out of the man and into a herd of pigs, which went dashing over a cliff into the lake. Calm and peace were once again restored.

No matter the source of the hubbub, Jesus is in control. The same Lord who calmed a storm and cast out demons can give us a perfect peace. Isaiah 26:3 promises, “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!”

Peace is not found in escaping the noise of life but in trusting the One who is greater than it. Today, the storms may look different for us. They may come through financial stress, broken relationships, health struggles, uncertainty about the future, or the constant stream of troubling news surrounding us. Yet the invitation remains the same: bring everything to God in prayer and fix your thoughts on Him.

Instead of carrying every burden alone, pause throughout the day to pray, read His Word, and remind yourself that Jesus is still in control. The same Savior who calmed the wind and waves can calm anxious hearts today. When we choose to trust Him in the middle of life’s hubbub, He gives a peace the world cannot offer and circumstances cannot take away.

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Podcast Episode: Wisdom For A Steady Life

Pip: Get Encouraged is a site that does exactly what it says on the label — which, in a media landscape built on outrage, is either quaint or quietly radical.

Mara: Chris Miller has been writing this week about some genuinely old questions: how we live alongside people who are different from us, what we do when we fail, and whether Scripture can actually hold up as a guide through all of it.

Pip: Let's start with harmony and what it actually costs to pursue it.

Living Together on Purpose

Mara: The tension here is real: harmony sounds like a nice idea, but the posts push on what it actually requires — not agreement, but a deliberate choice to pursue unity across difference.

Pip: David puts it in Psalm 133, and the image is striking. The quote reads: "How wonderful and pleasant it is when brothers live together in harmony. For harmony is as precious as the anointing oil that was poured over Aaron's head."

Mara: So harmony isn't passive — it's described as something precious, even sacred. The practical upshot is that it requires effort: listening first, seeking understanding over winning, choosing to forgive.

Pip: The Power of a Servant's Heart lands in the same territory — Jesus redefining greatness as service, which is basically harmony's operating system. Both posts are asking the same uncomfortable question: are you contributing to unity or quietly working against it?

Mara: And that question about what we're building toward connects directly to failure — because pursuing harmony or servant leadership means you will stumble.

When Stumbling Is Part the Story

Mara: The posts here sit with a question most of us avoid: what do failure and fulfillment actually have to do with each other?

Pip: Overcoming Failure: Lessons from History's Successes opens the answer with a list — Babe Ruth, Robert Frost, Winston Churchill, Oprah — and then lands on Max Lucado: "Though you've failed, God does not. Face your failures with faith and God's goodness."

Mara: That's the turn. Failure is not the end of the story; it's a data point inside a longer one. The Psalmist in 37:23-24 puts it plainly: "Though they stumble, they never fall for the Lord holds them by the hand."

Pip: What I find useful about that framing is it doesn't minimize the stumble. It just refuses to let the stumble write the conclusion.

Mara: Finding True Fulfillment: Lessons from Solomon takes the other side of that coin. Solomon had everything — wisdom, wealth, influence — and still ran the experiment on every path life could offer.

Pip: And the experiment came back negative. Pleasure, accomplishment, possessions — meaningless, he says, unless the Lord remained central. That's not a small conclusion from someone who actually had the resources to test the premise.

Mara: Ecclesiastes 12:13 is where he lands: "Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone's duty." What the post draws out is that this is actually freeing — you don't have to keep chasing things that were never designed to satisfy.

Pip: Which is a more useful reframe than it sounds. If Solomon already ran the trial, you don't have to replicate it.

Mara: Both posts are making the same underlying argument: the thing you're afraid of — failure, or the emptiness after success — doesn't have to be the final word.

Pip: And if the conclusion is that Scripture anchors you through both, that's exactly where the next set of posts picks up.

Scripture as a Compass, Not a Relic

Mara: The question these posts press on is whether God's Word is actually functional — not just historically significant, but useful today, in real decisions.

Pip: Unlocking Wisdom: The Benefits of God's Word from Psalm 119 makes the case directly. Verse 105: "Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path."

Mara: The practical point is that a lamp only helps if it's on. Navigating Life's Storms with God's Word makes that concrete through Shackleton's Antarctic expedition — a crew navigating 800 miles of open ocean using only a compass and a sextant, and Scripture functioning the same way through uncertainty. Building Life on a Foundation You Can Trust grounds all of it in Psalm 111: fear of the Lord is the foundation of true wisdom, and that wisdom is expressed through obedience, not just knowledge.

Pip: Three posts, one consistent claim — the Word isn't decorative. It's load-bearing.


Mara: Harmony, failure, fulfillment, wisdom — these posts keep returning to the same underlying question: what are you actually building on?

Pip: And whether the foundation holds. More on that next time.

Overcoming Failure: Lessons from History’s Successes

It has happened to us all. No one likes it, and it is not one of life’s enjoyable experiences. It hurts, it is painful, and it is a part of everyone’s life. It is failure.

One stumble does not break or define a person. Some of history’s most successful people have experienced the agony of failure.

  • Babe Ruth held the record for the most strike outs, and struck out multiple times in a World Series game. Yet, look at his overall record.
  • Robert Frost was rejected by a magazine stating there was no place for his poetry.
  • An English teacher wrote on Winston Churchill’s report card that he did not have much potential for success.
  • Oprah was fired from a Chicago TV station. She went on.
  • You and I can insert our failures here.

Max Lucado says, “Though you’ve failed, God does not. Face your failures with faith and God’s goodness.”

  • “The Lord directs the steps of the Godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they never fall for the Lord holds them by the hand,” remarks the Psalmist in 37:23-24.
  • Proverbs 24:16 says, “The Godly may trip seven times, but they will get up again. But one disaster is enough to overthrow the wicked.”

Failures will come, but the Lord will help us overcome those failures and move on with life. Remember amid failure, the Lord is with you.

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The Power of a Servant’s Heart

The Power of a Servant’s Heart

What if True Greatness Looks Different?

Have you ever noticed how much of our world is built around the pursuit of power? We chase influence, recognition, and positions that make us feel important. We want our voices heard, our accomplishments noticed, and our opinions respected. Yet Jesus offers a completely different definition of greatness. It is one that has the power to change lives.

I’m a fan of the sitcom Home Improvement. A recurring theme throughout the show was Tim Taylor’s determination to squeeze more power out of every tool or device he touched. His quest for more power often led to hilarious disasters. While exaggerated for comedy, it reflects a desire that exists in all of us.

We want more power. We desire to be part of the ruling authority, members of the political party in control, or the leader who calls the shots. This longing is nothing new. We find examples of it throughout Scripture.

In Mark 10, James and John approached Jesus with a bold request. They wanted positions of honor and authority in His kingdom. Their desire to be the greatest was so strong that they failed to fully understand what they were asking. Jesus responded by asking if they could do what He was about to do. Without hesitation and without understanding the cost, they confidently replied, “We can.”

Their ambition momentarily blocked their view of reality. The desire for greatness caused them to focus on status rather than sacrifice. If we’re honest, we can do the same thing. Left unchecked, our desire to be the greatest can lead us down unhealthy paths. We may become prideful, dismissive of others, or consumed with proving our worth. We might look down on people who think differently, come from different backgrounds, or hold different positions in life—all in an effort to elevate ourselves.

But Jesus turns the entire conversation upside down.

He says, “Whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all” (Mark 10:43-44).

In God’s kingdom, greatness is not measured by how many people serve you but by how many people you serve. True power is not found in political influence, social status, or physical strength. True power is found in love, humility, and service. Jesus demonstrated this perfectly. “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, offering himself as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45).

So how can we live out this kind of greatness today?

Start by looking for one person you can intentionally serve. Offer help before you’re asked. Listen carefully to someone who needs encouragement. Treat every person you encounter with dignity and respect, regardless of their position or background. Choose humility when recognition is available.

Perhaps most importantly, ask God to give you a servant’s heart. Pray that He would reveal areas where pride or selfish ambition may be influencing your actions and help you see people the way He sees them.

Here’s a challenge for today: perform one act of service for someone who cannot repay you. Do it quietly. Don’t post about it. Don’t seek recognition for it. Simply serve as Jesus served.

The world says greatness comes from being noticed. Jesus says greatness comes from serving. One path seeks power for self; the other uses power to bless others. And according to Jesus, the second path is the one that truly changes the world. So, go out and change the world today.

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