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Who Will Stop?

Have you ever driven a dangerous stretch of road at night?

The kind where the curves tighten unexpectedly…
the visibility disappears…
and something deep inside you whispers, “Stay alert. This isn’t safe.”

That’s the scene Jesus paints in the parable of the Good Samaritan.

He places us on a seventeen-mile stretch between Jerusalem and Jericho—a steep, rocky road winding down toward the Jordan River near the Dead Sea. It was known for danger. Thieves hid among the rocks and sharp turns. Travelers feared it. Some carried weapons just to make it through alive.

And then Jesus says something surprisingly simple:

“A man was going down that road.”

No name.
No background.
No explanation.

Just… a man.

We are not told where he came from. We are not told what he did for a living. We do not know if he was wealthy or poor, respected or ignored.

He is simply a man.

And I believe Jesus does that intentionally—because He wants every one of us to see ourselves in him.

We Have All Been on That Road

Life has a way of placing us on roads like that.

Maybe not physically between Jerusalem and Jericho, but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

There are seasons when life hits hard.

Relationships fall apart.
Health declines.
Grief arrives without warning.
Disappointment piles on top of disappointment.

And before long, we feel exactly like that wounded traveler:

Beaten down.
Exhausted.
Stripped of strength.
Wondering how we ended up here.

That man on the road is more than a character in a story. He is a picture of what it feels like to be human.

Vulnerable.
Hurting.
In need.

And notice this: when he is lying there wounded, he has nothing to offer.

No status.
No ability to repay anyone.
No way to earn help.

All he can do is receive mercy.

If we are honest, every one of us has experienced moments like that. Moments when we needed someone to stop. Someone to care. Someone to step in because we could not fix things on our own.

So before we ask whether we are the priest, the Levite, or the Samaritan, maybe the first question is this:

Have I ever been the man on the road?

The answer for all of us is yes.

The Story Points Beyond Us

This parable is not just about what we should do for others. It is also a picture of what Christ has done for us.

Spiritually speaking, we were the wounded man.

Broken.
Wounded by sin.
Unable to save ourselves.

But Jesus did not pass by.

He drew near.

When we had nothing to offer, He gave everything. He bound up our wounds, carried our burdens, and paid the cost we could never pay ourselves. He did not simply meet an immediate need—He made a way for complete restoration.

That changes everything.

Because the mercy we are called to show is not something we manufacture on our own. It is mercy we have already received.

And when that truth settles deep into our hearts, we begin to see people differently.

We stop looking at others as interruptions or inconveniences. Instead, we recognize pieces of ourselves in them.

The Ones Who Passed By

Jesus continues the story.

A priest comes down the road. If anyone should stop, it should be him. He knows the law. He teaches others how to love God.

But he sees the wounded man and passes by on the other side.

Then comes a Levite—another religious man, another person who should have known better.

He passes by too.

Before we judge them too harshly, we should admit something uncomfortable:

We understand them.

Maybe they were afraid.
Maybe they thought the robbers were still nearby.
Maybe they convinced themselves someone else would help.

They had reasons.

But they also had distance.

And if we are honest, we have done the same thing.

We have all seen moments of need and quietly kept moving.

The struggling cashier at the grocery store.
The lonely person sitting by themselves at church.
The neighbor we have not seen in days.
The friend whose smile is hiding pain.

Sometimes we notice… but we do not stop.

The Unexpected Neighbor

Then Jesus introduces the third man:

“But a Samaritan…”

To the people listening, this would have been shocking.

Samaritans and Jews despised each other. There was deep hostility between them. If anyone was not expected to become the hero of the story, it was the Samaritan.

And yet he is the one who stops.

He bandages the man’s wounds.
Places him on his own animal.
Takes him to an inn.
Pays for his care.
Promises to return.

This was not convenient compassion.

It was costly compassion.

He allowed himself to be interrupted. He used what he had. He stayed involved.

What Mercy Looks Like

History gives us powerful examples of this kind of mercy.

During World War II, a badly damaged American bomber struggled through the skies over Europe. The plane was barely flying, and several crew members were wounded. A German fighter pilot named Franz Stigler was sent to intercept it.

As he pulled alongside the bomber, ready to attack, he looked inside and saw wounded men, fear, and helplessness.

Instead of firing, he chose mercy.

He escorted the enemy plane to safety.

Inside that American bomber, pilot Charlie Brown also made a choice. He could have ordered his crew to fire at the German fighter, but he did not.

Both men chose restraint.
Both men chose compassion.
And because of that, lives were saved.

Mercy has a way of interrupting what hatred expects.

The same thing happened during the Civil War at the Battle of Fredericksburg. Wounded soldiers from the opposing side lay crying out for water between the lines. A young Confederate soldier named Richard Kirkland could not ignore them.

He climbed over the wall and walked directly into danger carrying canteens of water—not to fight, but to serve wounded enemy soldiers.

And something remarkable happened.

The shooting stopped.

Even enemies recognized mercy when they saw it.

What Does This Look Like Today?

Jesus turns the question upside down.

We often ask, “Who is my neighbor?”

But Jesus shows us that the better question is:

Will I choose to be one?

A neighbor is anyone whose need crosses your path.

That means loving people is not just a theory. It becomes deeply practical.

This week, being a neighbor might look like:

  • Checking on the neighbor whose lights have been off for days.
  • Calling someone you have not seen lately.
  • Helping a struggling person at the grocery store.
  • Sitting beside someone who is alone.
  • Bringing a meal to someone overwhelmed.
  • Offering to pick up groceries or prescriptions for someone unable to get out.
  • Listening when someone needs to talk.
  • Following through after saying, “I’ll pray for you.”

Sometimes mercy looks dramatic.

Most of the time, it looks simple and intentional.

Who Will Stop?

At some point this week, you are going to find yourself on that road again.

Maybe at work.
Maybe in your neighborhood.
Maybe in a store aisle.

And someone’s need is going to cross your path.

When it does, you will have a choice:

Pass by…
or draw near.

Because being a neighbor is not always about having the perfect words or solving every problem. Sometimes it is simply refusing to let someone suffer alone.

I once heard a story about a little girl walking with her father. They passed a man sitting on the sidewalk. His clothes were worn, his head hung low, and it was obvious life had not treated him kindly.

The father slowed for a moment, then kept walking.

But the little girl stopped.

She walked over quietly and sat beside the man. She did not have money to give or answers to fix his life. She simply reached over and held his hand.

A few minutes later she returned to her father.

He asked, “What did you do?”

She answered:

“I helped him feel less alone.”

That is what it means to be a neighbor.

Not always big.
Not always dramatic.
Not always complicated.

Sometimes it is simply choosing to see someone, stop, and remind them they are not alone.

Because all around us are people wounded by life, wondering if anyone will stop.

And into that reality, Jesus still speaks the same words:

“Go… and do likewise.”

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5 Ways to be Today’s Good Samaritan

Neighbors come from surprising places.

The Parable of the Good Samaritan encourages us to be neighbors with anyone in need who is made in God’s image.

So, you and I are accountable to love our neighbor – anyone made in the image of God. Here are five ways you and I can be Good Samaritans today.

1. We should be aware of our neighbor.

Like the Samaritan, we should pay attention to those we pass. We should be aware of their needs. This requires attentiveness and compassion. Awareness helps you and I identify a neighbor’s needs and recognize how we can provide assistance.

2. We should be willing to come to our neighbors.

There were three travelers who came upon the injured man in Jesus’ parable, but only one was willing to take the risk to come to the man. We have many neighbors with needs, and approaching them can be risky. We risk our neighbor slapping our extended hand with no interest in our help. We risk driving our neighbor away. We also risk being hurt by our neighbor.

Approaching our neighbor may place us in a vulnerable place and may result in heartbreak. This is a risk Christians should be willing to take. Paul wrote to the Corinthians, “I will gladly spend myself and all I have for you even though it seems that the more I love you the less you love me” (2 Corinthians 12:15). Jesus was willing to be hurt to help us. Isaiah 53:6 says, “All of us, like sheep, have strayed away. We have left God’s paths to follow our own, yet the Lord laid on him the sins of us all.” Coming to our neighbor is a risky move, but the profit of being able to help him or her is great.

3. We should be willing to serve our neighbor.

We should be open to opportunities to serve. This may be checking on a neighbor, seeing if we can pick up something at the store, helping them find transportation to an appointment, or just listening to identify their needs. We should strive to serve our neighbors in the same way Jesus served those around him.

4. We should invest generously in our neighbors.

The Samaritan invested in the man’s recovery. The IVP New Testament Commentary calculates his investment to equal three and a half weeks of time for the injured man to recover. This would have been approximately two days’ wages. The Samaritan acted generously toward the man’s needs.

Our generosity can go a long way in meeting our neighbors’ needs. When we are in a position to be generous, the Bible encourages us to give freely.

5. We should follow up with our neighbors.

Meeting an immediate need and walking away may be helpful, but it is not the best approach. The Samaritan met the man’s initial needs, but we can also assume he followed up to ensure the man healed and the innkeeper was fully compensated. We too should follow up with our neighbors in an effort to fully meet their needs. This helps show we truly care for them.

We live in a society filled with needs, and as Good Samaritans, we should not pass by on the other side; rather, we should work to help our neighbors. After all, we are the hands and feet of Christ, and it is through our actions his grace and mercy shine brightly in a crooked and depraved generation.

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Which character are you?

3 Travelers, 1 Neighbor

Jesus uses a parable to illustrate a true neighbor. In the Parable of the Good Samaritan, Jesus places us on a 17-mile stretch of road between Jerusalem and Jericho. Descending sharply toward the Jordan River just north of the Dead sea, this especially dangerous patch of road curved through rugged, rocky terrain. It made an excellent hiding place for thieves. The IVP New Testament Commentary compares this stretch of road to the inner city late at night, and Josephus recorded travelers would carry weapons to protect themselves in this region.

Jesus says a man was traveling this road and fell into the hands of robbers, who left him “half dead.” Luke 10:31-32 goes on, “A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side.” These three men were all Jews, so according to the Lawyer’s definition, the priest and Levite should have acted as a neighbor to the man lying on the road.

However, they acted contrarily, passing by on the other side. This may have been to keep themselves ceremonially clean. Culture dictated one’s shadow could not even come in contact with a dead body, or one would become ritually unclean. They may have ignored the man out of concern for personal safety. What if the robbers were still around? They may have chosen not to check, thinking there was nothing they could do for the man. In short, the priest and Levite made excuses so they did not have to get involved in the man’s affairs.

“But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was and when he saw him, he took pity on him.” This Samaritan acted mercifully toward the man lying on the road. He bandaged the man’s wounds, served the man by placing him on his donkey, and made sure the man was cared for until he healed.

A Samaritan is the last person the lawyer would have considered a neighbor. In fact, Jesus may have stunned his listeners with this character. Much hostility existed between the Jews and Samaritans. John 4:9 says the hostility was so great the two groups would not even share dishes. Scholars are not confident when the hostility began.

The Expositor’s Bible Commentary points out, “The history of the Samaritans is uncertain. Many hold that they were a mixed race since the fall of the northern kingdom of Israel. The king of Assyria deported the leaders of Israel, among them the religious teachers, and replaced them with foreigners. From that time on, the inhabitants of the northern kingdom received no further prophetic instruction, nor did they recognize God’s revelation to the southern kingdom. The Samaritans were a fringe segment of the Jewish world for which Jesus and Luke had a concern.”

No matter the root of the hostility, the fact this Samaritan acted as a neighbor would have turned the stomach of the lawyer. He had a preconceived notion that he could not be a neighbor to a Samaritan. The expert in the law would not even say the word “Samaritan.”

Jesus continued by asking, “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?’ The expert in the law replied, ‘The one who had mercy on him.’ Jesus told him, ‘Go and do likewise.”

Jesus’ definition of neighbor is anyone with whom we come in contact. Geographic location, socioeconomic status, race and ethnicity, and culture are mute points in determining a neighbor.

The IVP New Testament Commentary remarks, “Jesus point is simply be a neighbor. Do not rule out certain people as neighbors and his parable makes the point emphatically by providing a model from a group the lawyer had probably excluded as possible neighbors. To love God means to show mercy to those in need. An authentic life is found in serving God and caring for others. This is a central tenet of discipleship. Here human beings fulfill their creative role, to love God and be a neighbor to others by meeting their needs. Neighbors are not determined by race, creed, or gender. Neighbors consist of anyone in need made in the image of God.”

Which character in Jesus’ parable best represents you? Are you the neighbor who passes by or the Samaritan?

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Who is my neighbor?

A challenge to the status quo.

A crowd was gathered, and Jesus was teaching. In an effort to find fault with Jesus’ doctrine, a lawyer stood up to ask a question. “Teacher,” he asked, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?” (Luke 10:26).

This is a good question. Many have pondered the answer. Jesus replies to the expert in the law by requesting his answer. Luke 10:27 says, “He answered, ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind; and love your neighbor as yourself.” This was a good answer to a good question.

The lawyer’s summation of the law was correct; loving one’s neighbor is a natural outgrowth of loving God, so these two commandments go hand-in-hand. Perhaps, he believed he measured up well, especially with loving God. From his viewpoint, the law expert did okay in loving his neighbor, so the conversation continued with another question.

“But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, ‘Who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29). There it is, the issue of accountability. The lawyer needed to justify his actions, so he needed a definition to know who he was accountable to love.

Perhaps we can relate; Scripture tells us to love our neighbor, but what exactly is meant by that decree? Neighbor is defined as a near person or place, so we automatically assign the title to individuals living next door, across the street, or in the adjoining apartment. We wonder if more is meant by neighbor than those with whom we have close contact.

The Expositor’s Bible Commentary points out the expert in the law had a narrow view of neighbors to mean “fellow Jews and proselytes.” Jesus redefines the term, and in doing so, challenges the lawyer’s understanding of neighbors, and ours too.

Jesus Redefines Neighbors

Jesus tells the parable of the Good Samaritan. A Jewish man was traveling and was attacked by robbers, who left the man to die. Two fellow Jews passed by and ignored the man in need, but a Samaritan came upon the scene and came to the man’s rescue. The Samaritan tended to the man’s wounds, and made sure he had what was needed to heal.

The parable forces the conclusion the Samaritan was truly the man’s neighbor. By definition, the two Jews who passed by should have acted neighborly, and the Samaritan should have passed by. The one least likely to be the neighbor acted in love.

Jesus defined neighbor as anyone with whom we come in contact, and this revolutionized the lawyer’s thinking. Samaritan’s were despised by Jews, so for the lawyer to see this man as a neighbor was hard. But a neighbor is anyone with whom we interact.

You and I interact with a variety of people. They come from all walks of life, and may not share our same political views. Yet, Jesus gives us a challenge to love our neighbor as ourselves. How well do we measure up? Do we intentionally show our neighbors love?

Why Fishermen? They Can Relate.

“I don’t think I’m going to go to church any longer,” Beth told her mom from the passenger’s seat. The two were pulling out of the church’s parking lot after attending a Sunday morning service. Beth, a college Sophomore, was home for the weekend, and her mom, Vicki, thought it would be nice if the two attended a church service.

Beth went on to explain, “It’s not that I don’t believe in God. I do; I believe God exists. I’m just not sure God is in there with those people.”

Vicki replied, “Yeah, I see what you are saying. I wonder that too.”

Have you ever wondered why Jesus called fishermen? Jesus would have had his pick of people to call, and he chooses to call fishermen. He did not call scholars, individuals well versed in the Old Testament, or religious leaders; 7 of the first 12 disciples were fishermen. Jesus called them because they possessed characteristics, he found desirable. Jesus called fishermen because they were relatable.

Fishermen are relatable.

Jesus spent most of his time outside the synagogue, and the religious leaders would often become upset because of the class of people around him.

Luke 15:1-2 says, “Now the tax collectors and ‘sinners’ were all gathering around to hear Jesus, but the Pharisees and teachers of the law muttered, ‘This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”

Jesus was relatable, and he called fishermen. They were also relatable. Fishermen were hard working, had families to support and bills to pay, and could easily relate to the stresses of everyday life. The fishermen Jesus called didn’t completely understand the Bible or everything taking place, but they could relate to the people who came.

As word concerning Jesus spread, people from all walks of life came to hear his message and accept his invitation of grace. Most people who came to hear Jesus were ordinary folks. They were fishermen, tax collectors, shop owners, government officials; they were moms and dads. They were individuals who had to work today to eat tomorrow. And the fishermen, turned disciples, could relate.

Christians need to be relatable.

Beth and Vicki were struggling because they did not feel they related to the people at church, and maybe the people at church did not feel like they could relate to Beth and Vicki; however, a relationship fostered outside the church walls might reveal lots of common ground. Christians, in many ways, are like the fishermen.

As word concerning Jesus still spreads, it is still ordinary folks who come to hear his message and accept his invitation of grace. Those coming are assembly line workers, customer service representatives, administrative professionals, salespeople; those coming are moms and dads and their families. They desire to find someone who relates to them; someone who has bills to pay and understands the stresses of life.

God called us because we are those people. We are the people who can relate. We are the ordinary folks. We are the friends and neighbors who can relate.

You may feel you have nothing to offer, but you do.

You may feel you have no insight to give, but you do.

You may feel like your story cannot encourage or inspire anyone, but it does.

You and I are relatable to the people around us, and we are how they see the Lord. Jesus didn’t call fishermen because they were experts; he called them because they could relate to people. You and I don’t have to be experts; you and I just need to be ourselves.

Acting

Be intentional with your relationships today. Allow someone to relate to the Lord through you today. It may be through a kind word, generous act, or simple and polite interaction.

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