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Who Will Stop?

Have you ever driven a dangerous stretch of road at night?

The kind where the curves tighten unexpectedly…
the visibility disappears…
and something deep inside you whispers, “Stay alert. This isn’t safe.”

That’s the scene Jesus paints in the parable of the Good Samaritan.

He places us on a seventeen-mile stretch between Jerusalem and Jericho—a steep, rocky road winding down toward the Jordan River near the Dead Sea. It was known for danger. Thieves hid among the rocks and sharp turns. Travelers feared it. Some carried weapons just to make it through alive.

And then Jesus says something surprisingly simple:

“A man was going down that road.”

No name.
No background.
No explanation.

Just… a man.

We are not told where he came from. We are not told what he did for a living. We do not know if he was wealthy or poor, respected or ignored.

He is simply a man.

And I believe Jesus does that intentionally—because He wants every one of us to see ourselves in him.

We Have All Been on That Road

Life has a way of placing us on roads like that.

Maybe not physically between Jerusalem and Jericho, but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

There are seasons when life hits hard.

Relationships fall apart.
Health declines.
Grief arrives without warning.
Disappointment piles on top of disappointment.

And before long, we feel exactly like that wounded traveler:

Beaten down.
Exhausted.
Stripped of strength.
Wondering how we ended up here.

That man on the road is more than a character in a story. He is a picture of what it feels like to be human.

Vulnerable.
Hurting.
In need.

And notice this: when he is lying there wounded, he has nothing to offer.

No status.
No ability to repay anyone.
No way to earn help.

All he can do is receive mercy.

If we are honest, every one of us has experienced moments like that. Moments when we needed someone to stop. Someone to care. Someone to step in because we could not fix things on our own.

So before we ask whether we are the priest, the Levite, or the Samaritan, maybe the first question is this:

Have I ever been the man on the road?

The answer for all of us is yes.

The Story Points Beyond Us

This parable is not just about what we should do for others. It is also a picture of what Christ has done for us.

Spiritually speaking, we were the wounded man.

Broken.
Wounded by sin.
Unable to save ourselves.

But Jesus did not pass by.

He drew near.

When we had nothing to offer, He gave everything. He bound up our wounds, carried our burdens, and paid the cost we could never pay ourselves. He did not simply meet an immediate need—He made a way for complete restoration.

That changes everything.

Because the mercy we are called to show is not something we manufacture on our own. It is mercy we have already received.

And when that truth settles deep into our hearts, we begin to see people differently.

We stop looking at others as interruptions or inconveniences. Instead, we recognize pieces of ourselves in them.

The Ones Who Passed By

Jesus continues the story.

A priest comes down the road. If anyone should stop, it should be him. He knows the law. He teaches others how to love God.

But he sees the wounded man and passes by on the other side.

Then comes a Levite—another religious man, another person who should have known better.

He passes by too.

Before we judge them too harshly, we should admit something uncomfortable:

We understand them.

Maybe they were afraid.
Maybe they thought the robbers were still nearby.
Maybe they convinced themselves someone else would help.

They had reasons.

But they also had distance.

And if we are honest, we have done the same thing.

We have all seen moments of need and quietly kept moving.

The struggling cashier at the grocery store.
The lonely person sitting by themselves at church.
The neighbor we have not seen in days.
The friend whose smile is hiding pain.

Sometimes we notice… but we do not stop.

The Unexpected Neighbor

Then Jesus introduces the third man:

“But a Samaritan…”

To the people listening, this would have been shocking.

Samaritans and Jews despised each other. There was deep hostility between them. If anyone was not expected to become the hero of the story, it was the Samaritan.

And yet he is the one who stops.

He bandages the man’s wounds.
Places him on his own animal.
Takes him to an inn.
Pays for his care.
Promises to return.

This was not convenient compassion.

It was costly compassion.

He allowed himself to be interrupted. He used what he had. He stayed involved.

What Mercy Looks Like

History gives us powerful examples of this kind of mercy.

During World War II, a badly damaged American bomber struggled through the skies over Europe. The plane was barely flying, and several crew members were wounded. A German fighter pilot named Franz Stigler was sent to intercept it.

As he pulled alongside the bomber, ready to attack, he looked inside and saw wounded men, fear, and helplessness.

Instead of firing, he chose mercy.

He escorted the enemy plane to safety.

Inside that American bomber, pilot Charlie Brown also made a choice. He could have ordered his crew to fire at the German fighter, but he did not.

Both men chose restraint.
Both men chose compassion.
And because of that, lives were saved.

Mercy has a way of interrupting what hatred expects.

The same thing happened during the Civil War at the Battle of Fredericksburg. Wounded soldiers from the opposing side lay crying out for water between the lines. A young Confederate soldier named Richard Kirkland could not ignore them.

He climbed over the wall and walked directly into danger carrying canteens of water—not to fight, but to serve wounded enemy soldiers.

And something remarkable happened.

The shooting stopped.

Even enemies recognized mercy when they saw it.

What Does This Look Like Today?

Jesus turns the question upside down.

We often ask, “Who is my neighbor?”

But Jesus shows us that the better question is:

Will I choose to be one?

A neighbor is anyone whose need crosses your path.

That means loving people is not just a theory. It becomes deeply practical.

This week, being a neighbor might look like:

  • Checking on the neighbor whose lights have been off for days.
  • Calling someone you have not seen lately.
  • Helping a struggling person at the grocery store.
  • Sitting beside someone who is alone.
  • Bringing a meal to someone overwhelmed.
  • Offering to pick up groceries or prescriptions for someone unable to get out.
  • Listening when someone needs to talk.
  • Following through after saying, “I’ll pray for you.”

Sometimes mercy looks dramatic.

Most of the time, it looks simple and intentional.

Who Will Stop?

At some point this week, you are going to find yourself on that road again.

Maybe at work.
Maybe in your neighborhood.
Maybe in a store aisle.

And someone’s need is going to cross your path.

When it does, you will have a choice:

Pass by…
or draw near.

Because being a neighbor is not always about having the perfect words or solving every problem. Sometimes it is simply refusing to let someone suffer alone.

I once heard a story about a little girl walking with her father. They passed a man sitting on the sidewalk. His clothes were worn, his head hung low, and it was obvious life had not treated him kindly.

The father slowed for a moment, then kept walking.

But the little girl stopped.

She walked over quietly and sat beside the man. She did not have money to give or answers to fix his life. She simply reached over and held his hand.

A few minutes later she returned to her father.

He asked, “What did you do?”

She answered:

“I helped him feel less alone.”

That is what it means to be a neighbor.

Not always big.
Not always dramatic.
Not always complicated.

Sometimes it is simply choosing to see someone, stop, and remind them they are not alone.

Because all around us are people wounded by life, wondering if anyone will stop.

And into that reality, Jesus still speaks the same words:

“Go… and do likewise.”

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Jesus Wept

It was a sad time for Martha and Mary. Their brother Lazarus has passed away. They sent for Jesus and he came, but his coming was delayed. The grieving sisters knew Jesus could help, but they were overcome by grief. They did not understand why the Lord delayed coming. They did not understand what was happening. All they understood in the moment was that Lazarus was no longer with them, and it hurt as they came to the realization, he would not be spending his days with them. Amid this heartbreak, we find two of the most powerful words in the Bible.

“Jesus wept” (John 11:35).

I believe these words paint a powerful picture. Jesus, fully knowing how the events were about to unfold, is so deeply moved by what is going on around him that he weeps. He does not stand idlily by as Mary and Martha grieve. He feels their pain. He understands what they are going through. He mourns with them; he empathizes with them. All powerful God has so much compassion for Lazarus’ family that he weeps for them.

We see here a compassionate, caring Jesus. Though he holds all power in his hand, he relates to Mary and Martha as they are struggling with the loss of Lazarus.

The same compassionate, caring Jesus relates to us. There is no doubt life is hard, and there are some truly sad seasons. Friends and family pass away. Relationships end. Trust in other people shattered. All of it causing heartache and pain, and in his compassion and care, Jesus is there with us. He is there to wipe our tears. He is there to heal our heartache. Jesus is there, weeping when we weep, mourning when we mourn, and holding our hand to help us get through whatever life may throw at us. How has the Lord helped you in a difficult time?

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Two of the Most powerful words in the bible

It was a sad time for Martha and Mary. Their brother Lazarus has passed away. They sent for Jesus and he came, but his coming was delayed. The grieving sisters knew Jesus could help, but they were overcome by grief. They did not understand why the Lord delayed coming. They did not understand what was happening. All they understood in the moment was that Lazarus was no longer with them, and it hurt as they came to the realization, he would not be spending his days with them. Amid this heartbreak, we find two of the most powerful words in the Bible.

“Jesus wept” (John 11:35).

I believe these words paint a powerful picture. Jesus, fully knowing how the events were about to unfold, is so deeply moved by what is going on around him that he weeps. He does not stand idlily by as Mary and Martha grieve. He feels their pain. He understands what they are going through. He mourns with them; he empathizes with them. All powerful God has so much compassion for Lazarus’ family that he weeps for them.

We see here a compassionate, caring Jesus. Though he holds all power in his hand, he relates to Mary and Martha as they are struggling with the loss of Lazarus.

The same compassionate, caring Jesus relates to us. There is no doubt life is hard, and there are some truly sad seasons. Friends and family pass away. Relationships end. Trust in other people shattered. All of it causing heartache and pain, and in his compassion and care, Jesus is there with us. He is there to wipe our tears. He is there to heal our heartache. Jesus is there, weeping when we weep, mourning when we mourn, and holding our hand to help us get through whatever life may throw at us. How has the Lord helped you in a difficult time?

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The Whirlwind of Life

She experienced a whirlwind of emotions.

She was a widow, with a son, in the middle of a famine. Provisions were almost expired; enough was left for one last meal. She was gathering the wood for the cooking fire when Elijah entered her life.

Elijah asked the widow to bring him a drink of water and a piece of bread. She responds in 1 Kings 17:12, “As surely as the Lord your God lives, I don’t have any bread, only a handful of flour in a jar and a little olive oil in a jug. I am gathering a few sticks to take home and make a meal for myself and my son that we may eat it, and die.”

Can you imagine? The widow is in a desperate situation, and she may feel hopeless. But here comes hope.

Elijah encourages her to do as he has directed, and promises the Lord will continue her provisions until the end of the famine. 1 Kings 17:6 records the widow and her son having enough to survive until the famine ended. This storm ended, but another rain cloud was on the horizon.

Some time later her son died. Amid the storm, the widow went to Elijah so he could act on behalf of God. This would have been an emotionally draining whirlwind for the widow; hard times followed by okay times only to be replaced by hard times again. Sadness giving away to happiness only to be broken down by grief. The winds of life tossed and turned the widow.

Perhaps this sounds familiar to your experience. Don’t lose the big take-away of the widow’s story.

Her faith pushed her forward.

It was the widow’s faith which compelled her to feed Elijah and go to him upon the death of her son. Her faith steadied her as the winds swirled around her.

You and I have a friend in Jesus who sticks closer than a brother. His compassion wiped the tears of the widow and held the hand of the man with leprosy. His power was victorious over death. There’s nothing in life that is a match for him.

Allow the Lord to be a part of your storm today.

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Can we help the lonely?

A touch cured a lonely soul.

Leprosy was a horrible disease. There was no cure, and the infection was easily transmitted. Individuals with leprosy were forced to live alone. As someone approached, the person was forced to shout “unclean” as a warning.

A person suffering from leprosy had to endure the physical pain of his or her flesh rotting. There was also the emotional pain of loneliness. Those with leprosy had to quarantine themselves, leaving their families and friends. The disease took its tole both physically and emotionally, and we find Jesus offering much compassion to those with leprosy.

Matthew 8 says, “Large crowds followed Jesus as he came down the mountainside. Suddenly, a man with leprosy approached him and knelt before him. ‘Lord,’ the man said, ‘if you are willing, you can heal me and make me clean.”

Imagine the scene. Jesus is leading a large crowd, and suddenly enters a man with leprosy. He starts speaking to Jesus as perhaps the crowd backs up a little. The man’s faith is obvious. He knows Jesus can heal him. Jesus does heal the man, but the other action Jesus takes is just as powerful.

“Jesus reached out and touched him,” records Matthew 8:3. Jesus touched him!

We do not know how long this man had endured the pain of leprosy. We do not know how many days or even years it had been since the man felt the closeness of human touch. All we know is Jesus touched him. Yes, Jesus healed his leprosy, but Jesus also healed his loneliness. The compassion offered by Jesus in this moment was stellar.

The man with leprosy was lonely, and Jesus interaction helped him. You and I may have the ability to help someone who is lonely.

When appropriate, the embrace of a hug and the holding of a hand is powerful. The sharing of a smile and a friendly greeting are equally as powerful. A wave can go a long way.

Our interactions today may help someone who is lonely without us even realizing it.

 

10 Practical Ways to Imitate Compassion

His occupation is beggar, and he has secured a prime spot. The road he sits beside each day is heavily traveled, and it is one of the best spots to be a beggar. He hears the stories about Jesus as he sits there; the stories of Jesus healing people and performing all kinds of miracles, and he wonders if Jesus could help him.

One day the traffic is unusually heavy. At first, he thinks it will be a large collection day. All those people in town would result in much more given. It turns out it is an extraordinary day. Jesus is in town, and now is his shot.

So, Bartimaeus starts shouting for Jesus to have mercy on him. People around him tell him to shut up, but he shouts more until Jesus hears him.

Jesus stops, calls Bartimaeus, and heals his eye condition. Jesus has compassion on him.

We live in a world filled with hurt. There is much need for compassion, and the Lord is compassionate. We are encouraged to imitate his compassion, so here is the picture of what we are to imitate and practical ways we can be imitators. Here are a few more times Jesus demonstrates his compassion.

The Lord is compassionate.

Luke 7 records Jesus and his disciples entering a town. As they were approaching the gate, a dead man was being carried out. The man’s mother, a widow, was following him overwhelmed with sorrow. Luke says, “When Jesus saw her, his heart went out to her.” He was so moved by compassion it drove him to action. Jesus raised her son.

Mark 1:40-42 records a man with leprosy coming to request help from Jesus. Mark tells us Jesus was moved by the situation. Jesus became angry at the man’s situation. He was not angry with the man, but the man’s situation. He healed the man, and Mark says, “immediately, the man’s leprosy left him. Jesus was so moved by compassion that it drove him to action.

Jesus doesn’t just feel sorry for folks. His compassion drives him to action. It drives him to do something about their situation. When Jesus sees people hurting, he takes steps to help them.

So what?

We are encouraged to show compassion as Jesus shows compassion.

Luke 6:36 says, “Be compassionate just as your Father is compassionate.”

Acting

Here are 10 practical ways you and I can show compassion.

  1. Pray for those in need.
  2. Volunteer at a food pantry.
  3. Volunteer at a homeless shelter.
  4. Provide transportation to a neighbor in need.
  5. Offer to pick up groceries or a prescription for a neighbor who has difficulty getting out of her home.
  6. Volunteer with a relief organization to do local projects.
  7. Check on a neighbor to make sure he is doing okay during an extreme weather event.
  8. Try to have a conversation with someone who seems lonely.
  9. Send a card or encouraging note to a friend you know is struggling.
  10. Offer a bit of grace to someone.

How are you going to show compassion today?

What are some other ways we can show compassion?

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