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Finding Comfort in Grief: A Journey with Jesus

Few experiences in life are as painful as saying goodbye to someone we love. Grief has a way of leaving us feeling empty, confused, and wondering if anyone truly understands the ache in our hearts.

Martha and Mary knew that feeling all too well. Their brother, Lazarus, had died. They had sent for Jesus, hoping He would arrive in time, but when He finally came, four days had already passed. Friends and neighbors had gathered to mourn with them, and the sadness was overwhelming.

Jesus loved Lazarus. He loved Martha and Mary too. As He saw their tears and the grief surrounding Him, something remarkable happened. Even though Jesus knew He would soon raise Lazarus from the dead, He didn’t dismiss their sorrow or tell them to stop crying. Instead, He entered into their pain. The shortest verse in the Bible simply says, “Jesus wept” (John 11:35).

That moment reminds us of an incredible truth: Jesus doesn’t stand at a distance when we are hurting. He draws near. He understands our pain, and his heart is moved by our sorrow.

Perhaps that’s why Jesus declared, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted” (Matthew 5:4).

Notice the promise isn’t that we will never experience grief. The promise is that we will not experience it alone. The God who wept at a friend’s tomb is the same God who walks beside us through every valley of loss, disappointment, heartbreak, and sorrow.

If you’re carrying a heavy burden today, remember that your tears are not unnoticed. The Lord sees them. He cares about what you’re going through, and he promises his comfort to those who come to him. One day, he will wipe away every tear forever. Until that day, his presence is our comfort, his promises are our hope, and his love will never leave us.

Jesus Wept

It was a sad time for Martha and Mary. Their brother Lazarus has passed away. They sent for Jesus and he came, but his coming was delayed. The grieving sisters knew Jesus could help, but they were overcome by grief. They did not understand why the Lord delayed coming. They did not understand what was happening. All they understood in the moment was that Lazarus was no longer with them, and it hurt as they came to the realization, he would not be spending his days with them. Amid this heartbreak, we find two of the most powerful words in the Bible.

“Jesus wept” (John 11:35).

I believe these words paint a powerful picture. Jesus, fully knowing how the events were about to unfold, is so deeply moved by what is going on around him that he weeps. He does not stand idlily by as Mary and Martha grieve. He feels their pain. He understands what they are going through. He mourns with them; he empathizes with them. All powerful God has so much compassion for Lazarus’ family that he weeps for them.

We see here a compassionate, caring Jesus. Though he holds all power in his hand, he relates to Mary and Martha as they are struggling with the loss of Lazarus.

The same compassionate, caring Jesus relates to us. There is no doubt life is hard, and there are some truly sad seasons. Friends and family pass away. Relationships end. Trust in other people shattered. All of it causing heartache and pain, and in his compassion and care, Jesus is there with us. He is there to wipe our tears. He is there to heal our heartache. Jesus is there, weeping when we weep, mourning when we mourn, and holding our hand to help us get through whatever life may throw at us. How has the Lord helped you in a difficult time?

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Not Goodbye But See You Later

The pain is real, and so is the hope.

Lazarus was a good brother and great friend. He was close to his siblings and friends, but suddenly one day, he was not there. He had passed away.

His sisters were filled with grief. Their pain was real; their hearts hurt as their tears flowed. Lazarus’ friends, including Jesus, were saddened. Jesus wept. Their pain was real; their hearts also hurt as tears flowed.

As they were hurting, Jesus offered hope.

Jesus says in John 11:25, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live even though they die.”

The hope offered to Lazarus’ family and friends was as real as the pain. It was a hope in the fact they were not saying “goodbye,” rather “see you later.”

The pain of losing someone close to us is hard. Grief is real, and our hearts hurt as our tears flow. It may be losing a spouse, parent, sibling, or friend causing the pain. For Chris Young, it was losing his best friend Adam.

This loss was part of the inspiration for Young’s song Drowning. The lyrics remind us grief is real, and it comes in waves. The song also reminds us we have hope of seeing our loved ones again. You may be drowning today, but you can have hope in the reality it is not “goodbye,” but “see you later.”

Jesus said, “I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live even though he dies.” John 11 records Jesus calling Lazarus from the grave shortly after saying these words. Mary and Martha were able to see Lazarus again. Jesus himself went into the tomb but came back out. He reigns over death.

Though losing someone is hard, it does not have to be “goodbye” we say. We only have to say, “see you later.”

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