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  • Parenting is Overwhelming

    Parenting is Overwhelming

    Moses’ parents experienced the struggles of parenting.

    Moses’ parents were up against it. They were living at a time Pharaoh had decided the Israelites should have no more boys. The decree was for all newborn Israelite boys to be killed, but Moses’ parents ignored it. They kept Moses hidden for 3 months, and as his parents, they had to make some hard choices to protect his life.

    The Bible says Moses’ parents placed him in a basket and floated it down the Nile. Moses is found and adopted by Pharaoh’s daughter. The Lord’s care and Moses’ parents’ choices put him on a path to fulfill his destiny. He became a great leader for Israel. It all started when Moses’ parents had to make some hard choices.

    Parenting is consuming.

    Parenting is hard; it can be overwhelming. Moses’ mom and dad faced much adversity when he was born. There was the decree, they had a newborn needing care, and they had to keep him hidden. I would not want to be in their situation, but it does illustrate how consuming parenting can be.

    As parents, you and I are trusted with a life. This person for whom we are responsible has a purpose, so we don’t want to mess up. Adding to the stress is the fact part of our purpose is to help our child fulfill his or her purpose, so we don’t want to mess up.

    Parenting is hard. We worry about everything. Are we too strict? Are we too lenient? Is our child growing and learning fast enough? Is our child growing and learning too fast? When something happens, we worry the opposite should be happening. Parenting is hard.

    It can be overwhelming as we worry about everything, but we need to remember as much as we love our kids, God loves them more. As much as we want what is best for our kids, God wants it more, so we should rely on the Lord to guide us in the overwhelming task of parenting.

    Lamentations 2:19 encourages, “Pour out your hearts like water to the Lord. Lift up your hands to him in prayer pleading for your children….”

    No matter the situation, when our kids are hurting, we want to come to the rescue. It is easy to bandage a sore and offer a hug, but when the situation becomes more advanced, rescue becomes more difficult. It might even reach a point where we must follow the example of Moses’ parents. Pray and trust the Lord.

    The hard choice of floating Moses down the Nile was made in faith. Hebrews 11 says it was by faith Moses’ parents made their decisions. They knew the Lord gave them a child, and the Lord would care for him.

    In Fearless, Max Lucado reminds us that before our kids were ours, they belonged to God. And, even as they are our children, they still belong to God. All people are God’s people, even the little people residing in our home. God shares in our desire to do something when our kids are hurting.

    Moses parents trusted the Lord with their child. They had reached a point where they were powerless. There was nothing more for them to do than trust the Lord. They were not the only parents who have reached this point.

    • In Matthew 15, a Canaanite mother came to Jesus pleading for help. Her daughter was plagued by an evil spirit. The disciples tried to ignore her, but Jesus didn’t. He heard her pleas, and he provided relief for her daughter.
    • Mark 9 records a boy had been struggling since he was young. The child was possessed by an evil spirit causing much havoc. The boy’s father came first to the disciples, then to Jesus pleading for help. The disciples couldn’t do anything, but Jesus could. Jesus heard the father’s plea for assistance, and he provided an answer.
    • Jairus, in Mark 5, came to Jesus passionately pleading for Jesus to heal his sick daughter. There were individuals who said it was too late. Nothing could be done to heal the girl, but Jesus still did something. Jesus heard the father’s plea and healed her.

    When we have reached the end of our rope and there is nothing more we can do for our child, we can pray and trust the Lord. In the doctor’s office, in the hospital room, in the recovery center, in the moments when we see disaster looming, we can pray and trust the Lord. He is fond of our kids, and he wants what is best for them.

    I must pause for a moment and say I’ve not experienced every emotion a parent may feel. You, as a parent, may be navigating through overwhelming circumstances I have not experienced, so I am not claiming to have all the answers. I’m only desiring to point you toward a resource. As you are amid overwhelming situations, I hope you are doing okay, and offer the Lord as a guiding resource.

    Seek the Lord’s guidance.

    Lucado goes on in fearless to tell us God has a heart for hurting parents. After all, he’s a parent too. He understands the overwhelming emotion of being a parent. His child was beaten, mocked, and even died. He was separated from his child. He gets the pain and agony that comes from being a hurting parent.

    So, as a parent, take advantage of the resource of prayer.

    • As your child leaves the house, send him or her away with a prayer.
    • As you put your child to bed, cover him or her with prayer.
    • As your child struggles with life, pray with and for him or her.
    • Pray he or she develops a hopeful confidence in this life and an eternal home in the next.

    And remember, even when your child is not safe in your arms, he or she is safe in the Lord’s arms.

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  • 3 Reasons God is Our Refuge

    Psalm 46 confidently proclaims the Lord is our refuge.

    Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength always ready to help in times of trouble.”

    Here are 3 reasons God is our refuge.

    1. God is our salvation.

    Romans 5:1 says, “Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ, our Lord, has done for us.”

    2. God is our safety net.

    Romans 8:35 asks, “Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean he no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity or are persecuted or hungry or destitute or in danger or threatened with death?”

    Verses 37-39 answers, “No, to spite all these things overwhelming victory is ours through Christ who loved us. And, I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow, not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below, indeed nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

    God has our back. When everything else around us crumbles and falls, God stands strong and keeps us safe. Financial markets may crash, retirement funds may plummet, illnesses may come, but the Lord holds us safely in his refuge.

    3. God is our strength.

    Philippians 4:13 says, “For I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength.”

    It doesn’t matter where we are; whether we have plenty or are lacking, The Lord gives us strength to get through the situation.

    “Be still and know that I am God,” the Lord says in Psalm 46, “I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.’ The Lord of heaven’s armies is here among us. The God of Israel is our fortress.”

    With God as our refuge, we can have peace. This is a peace which transcends human understanding.

    Philippians 4:7 says, “Then you will experience God’s peace which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”

    As things shift and move around us today, we can enjoy the peace given to us by being in the Lord’s refuge.

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  • Always Stay Humble and Kind

    A reminder to display humility and kindness.

    Humble and Kind by Tim McGraw is a song that grabs you by the heart and reminds you it is best to live a lifestyle of humility and kindness.

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    The chorus reminds us to always be humble and kind. You and I have goals to achieve, dreams to realize, and purposes to fulfill. This takes a great deal of work on our part, but when the goal is achieved, dream realized, and purpose fulfilled, we need to remember to stay humble and kind. We may have worked hard, but without the Lord’s help, we would not be successful.

    The song also reminds us a grudge can weigh us down. It’s hard, but we should work to forgive and not hold a grudge. Always be humble and kind.

    The song gives us a challenge for which to strive. A lifestyle of humility and kindness is the best way to live.

  • Responding to Change

    One key to getting through change.

    Raise your hand if you like change. My hand is not up. In fact, I have it tied down just in case you thought it could possibly be going up. I have a strong dislike for change. I’m happiest in routine; a daily routine that fits into a weekly routine. Everything is better when it fits into the routine.

    I imagine you’re the same. No one cares for change. We like to have the “when” and “where” of life. Change is unsettling; however, it is a requirement of life.

    Change is inevitable; it will come. Our routine will be disrupted much throughout life. Illnesses, lost jobs, financial struggles, heartbreak, and many other disruptions will occur. The change may even force us into uncharted territory. It’s unnerving and we can’t control the change, but we can control how we respond.

    The Bible gives us the example of Abraham to help us understand how to respond to change. Abraham was called to leave everything he knew. Abraham was to leave home and go into uncharted territory. This was a huge change for Abraham.

    With his family and belongings, Abraham left his routine and headed into the unknown. He was uncertain of the path. He was unsure of the destination. His routine was fluctuating. For Abraham, this one change unsettled everything. The only certainty Abraham had was the Lord.

    Abraham knew the Lord was with him. He knew the Lord would guide him, so he responded to the change with faith.

    “It was by faith,” Hebrews 11:8 says, “Abraham obeyed when God called him to leave home and go to another land that God would give him as his inheritance. He went without knowing where he was going.”

    Abraham’s faith allowed him to focus on what was to come rather than the change.

    Hebrews 11:10 says, “Abraham was confidently looking forward to a city with eternal foundations. A city designed and built by God.”

    Right now, our routines are being disrupted. Many of us are scrambling to adjust in an evolving situation. It can be unsettling. While we may be uncertain of everything else, we can be sure of one thing. The Lord is with us.

    The Lord will guide us in this uncharted territory. The Lord will get us to our destination just like he did Abraham. Like Abraham, we need to remember change is only temporary. The Lord has something better for us on the other side.

    Jeremiah 17:7-8 says, “But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank with roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worried by long months of drought. Their leaves stay green and they never stop producing fruit.”

    You and I may hate it, but change is inevitable. Abraham’s story reminds a faithful response is best in these moments.

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  • The Lord personally goes before us in uncertain times.

    Don’t be afraid. God will personally go ahead of you.

    Israel was about to go into Canaan. This was the land the Lord had promised to them, and it was time to enter the land. Many barriers still stood in the way.

    For the Israelites, this may have been an uncertain time. What was going to happen? How would they move forward? What challenge would they face tomorrow? These are questions everyone seems to ask in uncertain times, and Moses reassured the people.

    Moses says in Deuteronomy 31:6, “So be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid and do not panic before them for the Lord your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.”

    Moses reminded the people the Lord would personally go ahead of them. The Lord would create the path, and he would show the way to go. So, the people of Israel could walk into uncertain times with the confidence the Lord would be with them.

    In the same way, we can have confidence the Lord is with us. He will personally go ahead of us. He will create the path and show us the way to go. We can have confidence following the Lord’s leading will get us through uncertain times.

    We are living in a time and place which may be unsure, uncertain, and fluctuating, but the Lord is constant. He is never changing.

    Hebrews 13:6 says, “So we can say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear.”

    You and I can have confidence in the Lord; he is personally traveling ahead of us. He is creating the path and will show us the way to go.

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  • 9 Jokes Guaranteed Not to Make You Laugh

    9 Jokes Guaranteed Not to Make You Laugh

    Some humor to help you get through the day.

    Amid the stressfulness of life, one of the best ways you and I can encourage one another is offering a slight diversion. So, here’s a slight diversion.

    Here’s 9 jokes guaranteed not to make you laugh.

    1. What did Mr. and Mrs. Hamburger name their daughter?

    Patty

    2. How do you convince a farmer’s daughter to go on a date with you?

    A tractor.

    3. What are the weakest days of the week?

    Saturday and Sunday. They are the weekends.

    4. Why are skunks intelligent?

    They have lots of sense.

    5. What do you call a farmer who counts his corn stalks?

    A corn stalker.

    6. What did the one egg say to the other egg?

    Get cracking.

    7. Why does a golfer take two pairs of pants to the course?

    In case he gets a hole in one.

    8. What do you call two monkeys sharing an Amazon account?

    Amazon Prime mates.

    9. What did the triangle say to the circle?

    You’re pointless.

    I hope this has encouraged you in some way. In this stressful season, remember to stay calm. The Lord is our constant as everything changes around us.

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  • The Constant in an Ever-Changing Crisis

    The Constant in an Ever-Changing Crisis

    Everything around us may be swirling and tossing, but the Lord is staying.

    The current landscape is ever-changing. Society is amid a health crisis, which is rapidly evolving. Information is changing daily, perhaps even every few hours, and we must adjust our approach at a breakneck speed. It can certainly be overwhelming as everything is changing around us, but there is one constant.

    Hebrews 13:8 says, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.”

    The Lord is our constant in an evolving time. Everything around us may be swirling and tossing, but the Lord is staying. He is the same today as he was yesterday, and he will be the same tomorrow as he is today. And, the Lord has already displayed his power over everything.

    He calmed a storm and overpowered demons in an evening’s work. Mark’s Gospel records this eventful night.

    Power on display.

    Power to calm the storm.

    After Jesus wrapped up a day of preaching, he and the disciples were crossing a large lake, and a fierce storm developed. The Bible says the wind was howling and waves were crashing over the boat filling it with water, but Jesus was asleep.

    The panicked disciples woke him, but Jesus didn’t panic. He calmly rebuked the storm and it obeyed. The disciples were amazed and pointed out even the wind and the waves obey the Lord.

    What caused the disciples to panic, Jesus calmly controlled? He was their constant in a storm, and he was constantly in control.

    Power to free the man.

    The excitement continued across the lake. A man, who was possessed by demons, ran to meet Jesus. He was screaming. Jesus overpowered the demons. He freed the man from their bondage and sent them over the cliff into the water. All were amazed at Jesus’ power.

    What caused everyone difficulty and stress, Jesus calmly controlled. The demons were no match for Jesus.

    The evening from the disciple’s perspective.

    What a night the disciples experienced. Their trip across the lake was interrupted by a strong storm. They were panicked and anxious. They finally get across the lake, but their hopes of having a calm moment are interrupted by a screaming man in the dark.

    Either of these events would be enough to unnerve the disciples, but they experienced both in one night. Panic, uncertainty, and anxiety may describe the disciple’s emotions that night, but Jesus met the night with calmness and constant control.

    Relating to the disciples.

    Right now, you and I may feel like the disciples felt on that night. Panic, anxiety, and uncertainty may be emotions we are feeling today. The days and weeks ahead have us in suspense. Everything is rapidly evolving around us, but we can take courage in the fact the Lord is constant. In an ever-changing world, the Lord is never changing.

    “So, we can say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear…,” says Hebrews 13:6.

  • 3 Benefits to Staying Calm in Overwhelming Situations

    Clear thinking helps us get through the heaviest of situations.

    It was a sunny Saturday morning, and the van made several turns before stopping. The driver said, “Let the training begin. Get out. I’ll see you back at the training facility.” The team with their guide dogs got out. They were lost.

    What street were they on? What direction did they need to go? They were faced with a choice. They could panic or stay calm.

    Staying calm awards, you and I benefits in overwhelming circumstances.

    1. Staying calm keeps us thinking clearly.

    Our minds are not fogged by panic, so we can process the situation. We can clearly see the event and any options available to us. Clear thinking will help us ask appropriate questions and develop strategies for moving forward.

    2. Staying calm helps us respond rather than react to the situation.

    Often reacting to a situation makes it worse. Our reaction is not thoughtful, so it doesn’t solve the problem. Responding with a thoughtful strategy can propel us forward even in the heaviest of situations.

    3. Staying calm helps us communicate clearly.

    One of the best resources we have in overwhelming situations is each other. Working together will help us create a better path out of the situation than we can make on our own. Staying calm helps us communicate in a more effective way.

    Calm communicators think before they speak. They are not irritable and are less likely to drive teammates away by the things they say. Calmness fosters clear communication.

    You and I will be placed in overwhelming situations. No one knows what tomorrow holds. The recent Corona pandemic is a good reminder we need to be ready for anything. There are benefits to staying calm when we feel overwhelmed. Staying calm will help us develop and execute a plan to get through the situation.

    The lost team made it back to the training facility with no issues. We stayed calm and started walking in what we believed was the right direction. We found someone from the neighborhood, and she gave us more thorough directions. We made it back and had the confidence to stay calm if the events of the training exercise ever occurred in a real-life situation.

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  • 3 Keys from Psalm 16 for OverpoweringCircumstances

    Here are 3 keys from Psalm 16 to help in the storms of life.

    1. The Lord is a place of refuge during overwhelming times.

    David’s life had its share of overwhelming situations. He faced down Goliath. He found himself being surrounded by his enemies and being chased through the wilderness. During these times, David found his refuge in the Lord.

    David says in verse 1, “Keep me safe, O God, for I have come to you for refuge.”

    Life creates moments when we need the shelter of the Lord, and we can seek refuge from him. He will rescue us.

    Psalm 17:7 says, “By your mighty power you rescue those who seek refuge from their enemies.”

    When the pink slip arrives, the bank account hits negative numbers, and we’re not sure what tomorrow holds, the Lord shelters us. When the loved one leaves and we are heartbroken, we can enter the sanctuary of the Lord. Life’s storms will hit, but the Lord will keep us safe and give us refuge.

    2. The Lord will guide us in overwhelming times.

    David says in verses 7-8, “I will bless the Lord who guides me. Even at night my heart instructs me. I know the Lord is always with me. I will not be shaken for he is right beside me.”

    The Lord will prompt our steps and guide our direction. He will help us navigate overwhelming situations. We need only to trust him.

    Proverbs 3:5-7 advises, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, submit to him and he will direct your paths. Do not be wise in your own eyes. Fear the Lord and shun evil.”

    The direction we go may seem strange, but we must remember the Lord will not lead us astray nor will he leave us. He will pilot us through the darkest of times.

    3. Victory comes in the Lord.

    At the end of all the struggles, David knew victory comes in the Lord.

    He says in verses 10-11, “For you will not leave my soul among the dead or allow your holy one to rot in the grave. You will show me the way of life granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever.”

    Acting

    The next time a storm comes in your life, apply these points and allow the Lord to go with you through the storm.

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  • Count Your Blessings

    “Always take time to count your blessings.”

    Song lyrics can present the Lord’s message to us in a melody which goes straight to the heart. We are reminded of timeless truth which can change our outlook and attitude.

    Blessings by Florida Georgia Line has those lyrics.

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    We are reminded of our blessings. “It sure ain’t hard to count your blessings,” the chorus says. An inventory of our blessings won’t fit on one hand or even two. Thinking about our blessings helps us see we have an abundance. A comprehensive list of our blessings can move us from discouraged to encouraged.

    The old hymn Count Your Blessings suggests we name them one by one.

    “When upon life’s billows you are tempest tossed,

    When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,

    Count your many blessings. Name them one by one,

    And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.

    Count your blessings. Name them one by one.

    Count your blessings. See what God hath done.

    Count your blessings. Name them one by one,

    And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.”

    It is not hard to count your blessings. Every good and perfect gift has come from the Lord above. Share how the Lord has blessed you in the comments below.

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